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my parents are very materialistic. they tend to relate every single thing with money. i was born and grew up in rich family, and they are still rich til now, my dad has to go to hospital every month and need alot of money. he never ask his children for money, but he sometimes cheats people by telling un real price on the stock market, un real price in the property business, and many more. i have my relationship with my husband to be many years ago ended after he found out that my dad took around usd.3000 when my ex fiance bought a future house for me and him (after he proposed me to marry him, my dad FORCE him to uy a house from his agent and told un real price) and we broke up then.

long after that, i am now having a great own family with 1 boy and 1 adopted child, even my dad was RUINED my wedding day and made me embarassed so much on my wedding day but i still love him, i still always think that he has done so many bad things in his life because he wants to make his family happy (in wrong way of thinking) and since he has 2 wifes and 12 kids, he still must feed 5 more babies at home! so sometimes with his disease killing him slowly he lives in a big pressure.

his business becoming night mare, he sold the family farm, he sold houses and many of his business are bankrupt, and my younger sister contacted me, i return to my country and met them. they are fine, and i am not worry.

months after, my mom called me and offered me a very good opportunity of earning money, and i believe my parents (my mistake) and i spoke with my husband and we agreed to spend usd.100.000 on their business, and viola… they disappeared! i try to contact them night and they but no answer. i decided to go to the country they live and they said all country is in crisis and i believe it too.

finally, i asked them to give me back my money, but they dont have it, i said give me one of the house in return and they agreed. i own one of the property in my name and i was happy until i got called by unknown and he said "thats my house" and i have to come back again to my country to fix the problem, and i won (after a long fight with in the court) and i have a very bad relation ship with my parents then,

now, my husband start to ASKING me about the money we spent. and i said please be patient, i decide to RENT the house and use lending agent to look after my rental property, after i got one, 2 weeks after they put the advertisement on the house "for rent-call Mike" Mike my agent send me an email said "some one took the banner and change it with some one name i dont know" and i found out that IT WAS MY MOTHER PHONE NUMBER. they want to take my money again!!!!!

i dont know what is wrong with them. i just afraid my husband will smell these bull shit, he asked me to SELL it and i am just afraid i will be in a hard situation AGAIN.

what should i do??? i did 6 times of banners and using a different agent, still same things happened. i also want my son and daughter to know their grannies, i know my dad and mom love them too, i just have no idea what is going here, why they treat me like that..

i know the crisis is every where and it wont be easy to sell my house. sometimes i just dont want to think about it, but now i feel very underpressure, i got a skin disease due to my stress, i also have a cold sexual life because i refuse my husband more often because i cant stop to think about my parents behaviour.

i dont want to have fight with any body, especially with my parents and family, i cant sue them either, i dont want!!!

help me with your wise answer. thank you.

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My Ex and I are best friends. We dated for 8 months, but she called it off about 4 months ago. She said she didn’t want a serious relationship. Though I was trying to get back together with her, she made it clear she only wants to be friends. We got in a big fight recently, she said mean thing to me, but I said some stupid stuff too, and in my anger, they really hurt her feelings. I didn’t mean any of it but, I know what i did was wrong. But I apologized, and will do what I can to make up for it. For now she is still mad, I think she just needs space and time to let go of her anger for me. When she’s calmed down, I will apologize again, and ask her what we can both do to maintain a happy, healthy, trusting friendship, and learn from the experience. To me it doesn’t matter which of us is at fault, as long as we know we did wrong, and are willing to both do better in the future, and be honest with each other and communicate. I still love her very much, but she has made it clear that she just wants to be friends, so I will stop trying to date her. I respect her wishes, I don’t want to become a creepy stalker. But, I’m just asking is that a good mentality? I may not be able to date her, but I do love her very much, and she is the most valuable friend I have, And I will always be there for her, and Love her. I know living like thats not easy, but with time, I think we can get a better understanding of things. I wont chase her, she doesn’t want a romantic relationship. She wants to be just friends, and move on from what happened, so thats what I’ll do. But I want to stay her friend. The best way to fix that I think, is to give each other alittle space for now, so we cool off. Then apologize for it, and work hard in the future to not repeat our mistakes. I just want to know if I have the right idea? your advice please.

Helping your children adapt to the changes in family structure will be key when sharing custody.

Divorce is especially difficult for children who cannot understand why their parents no longer live in the same home. It’s vital to understand that they realize how much they’re loved by each of you and that the divorce isn’t their fault in any way. You and your ex can sit down along with the children and talk about how they feel, and also let them speak to you separately if they desire.

Children are comfortable expressing their feelings,when allowed to ask questions. Healing emotionally accelerates,when the chances to talk and be heard multiply. Rather than keeping their feeling to themselves or bad behavior because they don’t know how to deal with these feelings, they will feel better when their parents hear them and accept what they are experiencing.

A divorce can bring about plenty of hostility between the ex spouses but they must be careful not to display the same in front of their children. Parents need to realize that kids don’t see that you can not get along with each other but that doesn’t stop you from loving them. Regardless of whom has the custody, be sure that both of you show your love for the children and promise to be there for them as these instill a sense of security and aids  them during hard times.

If you can, attempt to maintain the same routine for the kids if possible. If children are used to a specific routine on Saturdays, like going to the park with dad, this should not change if it is at all possible for it to stay the same. If it was a custom for mom and dad to go to all the soccer games, then you should keep on going and cheer for them. You being present in their lives shows that the kids can have a good life and get affection from both parents despite a divorce.

You can seek counseling as part of their divorce recovery if you recognize behavior changes in your children. The same advice and support that you and your spouse wanted, analysis from an expert preceding and following the divorce, may prove to be helpful to your children, too.

The kids might feel more comfortable discussing their feelings with therapists since they do not wish to hurt their parents’ feelings. Children often sense that they can’t confide in anyone and that they must take sides in parental disputes.

An appreciation of their emotional status will be carried out by a professional counselor, subsequent to meeting them individually. They might have meetings with the children and both parents after a while to assist them with the recovery procedure.

To make life better after divorce ,you should display love and also give attention to children,more than required. Either parent can have the custody of the kids as long as the mental and emotional well being of the kids is ensured.

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